LUST Is Not The Four-Letter Word On Which LASTING RELATIONSHIPS Are Built - Find out what is and how
YOU CAN ENJOY BEING WANTED FOR A LIFETIME OF NIGHTS AND NOT JUST A NIGHT OF A LIFETIME
How YOU can ATTRACT AND KEEP LOVE and LASTING RELATIONSHIPS
Stanley J. Leffew, author of "How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime"
When it comes to lasting relationships, which of the following have you thought or found yourself asking? (Check the ones that apply to you.)
"Why can't I find someone who wants to share more than just my bed and my body?"
"Just once in my life, why can't I find the kind of sexual relationship that is part of a loving relationship?"
"I see so many couples together, why doesn't it ever seem to happen to me?"
"Why do I seem to always offer so much love but have so little returned?"
"Am I doing something wrong?"
"Why do some people have great relationships and I can't seem to connect?"
"Who is going to love (insert your name)?"
If you checked one or more of the above, the following could be one of the most important letters you ever read.
From the desk of: Stanley J. Leffew 7:17 am - Sugar Land, Texas
Dear Lasting Relationship Seeker,
One of my favorite famous relationship quotes is this one by George Moore.
A man travels the world in search of what he needs, AND RETURNS HOME TO FIND IT.
I'll never forget how my heart was moved when I read the following story. See for yourself how it speaks volumes about the longing of the human heart for lasting relationships.
"In the summer 1980, a Miami Herald reporter captured a story that left the entire Gold Coast breathless. It was the story of Judith Bucknell.
Attractive, young, successful, and dead.
Judith Bucknell was homicide number one hundred and six that year. She was killed on a steamy June 9th evening. Age: 38. Weight: 109 pounds. Stabbed seven times. Strangled.
Were it not for her diary, Judith would have been just another number among many homicide victims for that year.
The correspondent made this comment about her writings.
In her diaries, Judy created a character and a voice. The character is herself, wistful, struggling, weary; the voice is yearning. Judith Bucknell has failed to connect; age 38, many lovers, much love offered, none returned.
Her struggles weren't unusual. She worried about getting old, getting fat, getting married, getting pregnant, and getting by......... Her diary was replete with entries such as the following.
Where are the men with the flowers and champagne and music? Where are the men who call and ask for a genuine, actual date? Where are the men who would like to share more than my bed, my booze, my food.... I would like to have in my life, once before I pass through my life, the kind of sexual relationship which is part of a loving relationship.
She never did.
Judy was not a prostitute. She was not on drugs or on welfare. She never went to jail. She was not a social outcast. She was respectable. She jogged. She hosted parties. She wore designer clothes and had an apartment that overlooked the bay. And she was very lonely.
I see people together and I'm so jealous I want to throw up. What about me! What about me!
Though surrounded by people, she was on an island. Though she had many acquaintances, she had few friends. Though she had many lovers (fifty-nine in fifty-six months), she had little love.
Who is going to love Judy Bucknell? the diary continues. I feel so old. Unloved. Unwanted. Abandoned. Used up. I want to cry and sleep forever.
A clear message came from her aching words. Though her body died on June 9th from the wounds of a knife, her heart had died long before...from loneliness.
I'm alone and I want to share something with somebody."
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I think we can all see a little of ourselves in the story of Judith Bucknell. We may not all identify with her lifestyle, but most of us can identify with her longings.
How about you? Like Judith, do you long for more in relationships?
Are the longings in your heart to be loved being met?
Does your heart long to hear the voice of a family of your own on the other end of the line when you call home?
Are you experiencing a peace inside that comes from knowing someone really cares about you and would miss you if something happened to you?
Does having the cry of loneliness your heart has experienced for so long seem like a distant memory sound good to you?
Do you long to share your deepest self with someone?
A FEW THOUGHTS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
So much of the relationship focus these days seems to be more about the URGE than it is the MERGE.
So many are chasing desire and drowning in a sea of recreational sex.
The "Sexual Revolution" over the last 60-years has really been more about the longing of the heart for intimacy than it has been about sex.
We seem to be scratching the wrong itch and making sex THE REASON FOR relationship instead of THE RESULT OF relationship. Many are even excluding relationship all together and embracing more of a "Girls Gone Wild" and Spring Break attitude about the body, sex and love.
Others have allowed sex to become the primary focus for their relationship because society has led them to believe that the ultimate goal of relationships is in seeking the "nighttime". Having built their relationship primarily on heat (sex), these type relationships soon burn out due to lack of substance and intimacy.
As stated in our opening message above,
Lust Is Not The Four-Letter Word On Which LASTING RELATIONSHIPS Are Built
Why should my message about lasting relationships be of interest to you?
Because you can know how to have success KEEPING A RELATIONSHIP and NOT JUST ATTRACTING a relationship
Because you will discover how to sustain a loving relationship and not just start one
Because it shows you how to move beyond the bedroom and the body for the intimacy in life your heart so craves.
Because it will make a dramatic difference in how you approach relationships and how you achieve lasting relationship success
Because it will help you see why living for the moment is causing so many to miss the lifetime and why TUNING IN will rock your world far more than TURNING ON every time
Because this information can help arm you with insight to keep your teenage and college age students from chasing the lead-with-the-body focus so prevalent in our culture
Because you can condition your own mind not to embrace the tsunami of misinformation that exists out there about the body, sex and love
Because you can know how to become more of what others LOOK FOR in life and relationships, not just what they LOOK AT
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This video will help you better understand what my ebooks reveal in more detail, that relationships are about LEG-A-CY, not how much LEG-I-SEE.
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Perhaps, you have been struggling in the area of lasting relationships.
Maybe you are confused by all the misinformation that exists about the body, sex, love and relationships today.
A LITTLE HEART TO HEART ABOUT DESIRE
You are being seduced!
You are being deceived!
The popular view on relationships these days makes sex more about passion than promise. As a result of society’s over-emphasis on the bedroom and the body, many are drowning in a sea of recreational sex and desire.
Yes, you are DESIGNED FOR DESIRE, but you also DESIRE FOR DESIGN.
There is something, a cry, a craving, a longing within the human heart for permanence in relationships. In a world where limited shelf life and expiration date relationships seem to be the order of the day, this desire for design still holds true.
It still holds true that lasting relationships are more about LEG-A-CY than about how much LEG-I-SEE.
It is quite common these days to see people LIVING THEIR LIFE BY DISTRACTION instead of LIVING THEIR LIFE BY DIRECTION. In other words, they are chasing desire, living for the moment and missing the lifetime.
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A Message to the Guys
I recently found out that one noted dating guru online is making around 2-million dollars a month selling seduction dating advice via the Internet.
If you came to this site with a little boy mindset like this, please leave! Leave and go spend your money elsewhere because you are not going to find that baloney here.
I am fed up with all the shock-jocks, music videos, Internet porn, Girls Gone Wild and Spring Break promotions and images fueling DESIRE and leaving the heart empty of DESIGN.
When you have grown up enough to know that real manhood is not measured by your manhood and women are more than full-of-brandy-eye-candy and toys-for-boys, come back here and learn how to stop chasing DESIRE and build DESIGN into your life and relationships.
I call this stuff SMUT - Selling Made Under Titillation. No matter how it is packaged it is still SMUT, and SMUT spelled backwards is TUMS. When fueling DESIRE finally leaves your life empty and makes you sick to your stomach, remember you heard it hear first.
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One of the greatest deceptions of our time has been embracing the belief that seeking the nighttime is the ultimate goal of relationships. The ultimate goal of relationships is in seeking the lifetime. Until we once again regain this understanding and make lifetime the pursuit in relationships, we will continue the vicious cycle of recycling being experienced in relationships today.
You ever find yourself struggling against the floodgate of lead-with-the-body in life and relationship messages that abound?
Have you ever wondered why your relationships seem to so often be centered more on heat than heart, and no matter how hard you try, you still long for intimacy and oneness?
Some of you reading this right now know that this applies to a relationship you're in, and you find your heart longs for intimacy that is more about IN-TO-ME-SEE.
With 95% of relationship-living existing with life OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM, why is so much focus been given to the other 5%? If we make being INTIMATE so much about what happens in the bedroom, we're missing out on the beauty of bonding where our relationship is lived out the most.
So many unhappy relationships exist because couples buy the lie. They begin their relationship on heat, get married, and then discover they don't know one another at all. As heat passions burn out, they wake up one morning wondering who the stranger is in their bedroom.
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If a lasting relationship is what your heart is searching for, read on.
If you want to see why a "lifetime of nights" approach to lasting relationships and love is better than a "night of a lifetime" approach, read on.
If you would like to know the difference between "the fire that warms" and "the fire that burns", please continue.
Stop and think about it.
Are you dating online or offline and trying to connect with your heart and not just your body?
Has committed love and making love last somehow been lost in a mindset of recreational sex for so many of those around you?
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The fires of passion and sex burn hot in the world around us. Chasing desire seems to be a common theme in the world today. Music videos, the Internet, TV shows, movies, magazines and books often have one common theme, the feeding of desire. Our society has indeed become preoccupied with sex, and more and more are getting caught in the web of deception that chasing desire creates.
What are the effects?
Children disillusioned by parental infidelity
Teenagers and College students confused and buying into the craze of "Girls Gone Wild" actions being where body dignity is found
The lonely and heart-broken housewife struggling to find intimacy and measure up to the blonde bombshells of her husband's pornography enthusiasm and addiction
Women struggling to be valued by our culture as more than sex objects
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And then along comes someone like me stating, "It is better to be wanted for a lifetime of nights and not just a night of a lifetime." Along comes someone like me extolling value in lasting relationships. Along comes someone like me with a message that "turning-on" may be elevated over and over again in the world around us, but "tuning-in" is what the heart really longs for.
"Tuning-in" to the longing of the human heart for intimacy!
"Tuning-in" to the longing of the heart for companionship!
"Tuning-in" to the longing of the heart for love, acceptance, compatibility and oneness!
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Find out for yourself why the popular trend of chasing desire and "night of a lifetime" relationships fails to satisfy the longing of the heart for love, companionship, oneness and intimacy.
Here are some of the benefits you will discover
The four-letter word lasting relationships are built on (it's not what you might think) (see pgs. 39-43)
Why you should not be branded as needy, desperate, weak or codependent just because you long for and seek a lasting relationship (see pgs. 63-66)
Why HEAT (sex) should be the RESULT of relationship instead of the REASON for relationship (see pg. 46)
How LIVING FOR THE MOMENT with our bodies is causing so many to MISS THE LIFETIME (see pgs. 16-18)
What you absolutely must do to become a great catch and worthy of pursuit for a relationship (see pgs. 75-76)
Why being seduced by an over-emphasis on the bedroom and the body is hurting us and killing our quest for lasting relationships(see pgs. 52-56)
Why prematurely fueling the sexual nature of a man feeds a man's idea of intimacy but starves a woman's and sabotages her chance for a commitment (see pgs. 82-84)
Why "tuning in" will rock your world far more than "turning on" every time (see pgs. 59-61)
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Being wanted for a night of a lifetime cannot compare to the joy of being wanted for a lifetime of nights. The heart really does long to connect.
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